Yesterday, I met the man who owns the retreat center in the mountains of North Carolina where I rested for a few days (thanks to my crazy-wonderful husband). We talked about Give Her Wings. He said something like, “Well, I think it is great that you have decided to reach out and help other women like that!” And I said, “Well, I have been there . . . I know how it feels.” And he said, “But, you are happy now. You could just say to yourself, ‘Well, I got through that and now I am going to move on and not look back.'”
Don’t think I have not thought of that. Before it begins to sound like I am tooting my own horn, you all need to know that it would be very easy for me to just move forward into a life of bliss with my husband and never think of hardship again.
I don’t want to be the priest.
I don’t want to be the Levite.
It is tempting for me to convince myself that the man attacked by robbers somehow brought it upon himself. Maybe he was flaunting his riches. Maybe he was not being wise somehow. Maybe he was suffering consequences of some kind. Why should I help him?
These thoughts make me sad. Sad that I am capable of thoughts like this; sad that others are, as well.
I want to be the Samaritan . . . who not only picks up my sister and brings her to safety . . . but who pours oil and wine on her wounds. I want to enter into her pain with her. I want to share her burdens. I do not want to look the other way. I could just walk on by. But, God help me, I will not. That is why we are doing what we are doing at Give Her Wings. Jesus told the experts of the law that they would inherit life when they “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your strength and with all your mind . . . and love your neighbor as yourself.” (Luke 10) And then, He proceeded to tell them how to do that with the parable of the Good Samaritan. That is life!! To be proactive in loving those who need us is the very quintessence of experiencing the Kingdom of God right now.
Take this journey with us. Stop on that path between Jerusalem and Jericho. Go out of your way with us. Enjoy the blessings and the fruits of loving intentionally. Wipe her tears; wrap your arms around her heart. Come with us . . . and love her.