Have you ever watched someone tell a lie, and you knew that you couldn’t prove that they were lying? When your children are the target of those kinds of lies, it can be maddening trying to counteract the resulting anxiety and confusion in their hearts and minds.
Join us for part 4 in our video series (Co-Parenting with a Wolf). Today we are talking about how to train our children to spot motives behind behavior, in this case the motivation behind a wolf’s lies:
Here are quick links to the first three posts/videos in this series, in case you missed them:
Part 1: What is a Wolf?
Part 2: Safety First!
Part 3: Badmouthing
and stay tuned for part 5: What to do when the wolf is in “rage mode”! xoxo
Wolves simply cannot (or more accurately, will not) ever stop badmouthing their victims. You can count on a wolf to never miss an opportunity to say mean, negative things and outright lie about you to anyone who will listen. But when it is your child that receives their verbal spew, is there anything you can do about it?
This is one of the many reasons that co-parenting resources for divorced parents are generally useless, when it comes to abusive people. They assume that each parent has a conscience, and want to put their children’s well-being first. You cannot pretend that a wolf ever has good motives (because he doesn’t)– this would invite further harm on your child.
In part 4 we will talk about the wolf’s lies (which could fill the ocean if he had enough time). Here are the links to the first two posts/videos in this series:
Part 1 – What is a Wolf?
Part 2 – Safety Issues
Stay tuned and God bless you as you travel this road! xoxo