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I feel like my life is in danger
*If you are in immediate danger, call 911.

*National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) available 24/7
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*Searchable map with shelter locations for US and Canada

I want to know how to get out of my abusive relationship
*Make a Safety Plan
*Contact your local shelter for resources

I think I’m living in an abusive relationship, but I’m not sure
*What’s the Difference Between a Difficult, Disappointing and Destructive Marriage? By Leslie Vernick
*Destructive Relationship Quiz By Leslie Vernick
*GHW Recommended Reading

I think my friend is in an abusive relationship. How can I help her?
*Believe Her By Megan Cox

I’m looking for a support group
*Give Her Wings private free support group: Nominate Here
*Conquer: $27/month, with Leslie Vernick
*Flying Free: $20/month, with Natalie Hoffman
*Called to Peace: with Joy Forrest

I want some resources on healing from an abusive relationship/PTSD
*Give Her Wings: Help & Healing After AbuseMegan Cox
*Called To Peace: A Survivor’s Guide to Finding Peace and Healing After Domestic Abuse, Joy Forrest
*Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse, Natalie Hoffman
*Untwisting Scriptures: that were used to tie you up, gag you, and tangle your mind, Rebecca Davis

Blog Posts:

More GHW-recommended Resources and Books

I want information on how to single parent/co-parent with the ex
*Co-Parenting With an Abuser, Give Her Wings free video series

I want to know if a church is safe:
Ten Questions to Ask Before Joining a Church

I need legal advice on child custody, protection orders, etc.
Battered Women’s Justice Project

Does Give Her Wings hold conferences?
-No, but we have been featured at Leslie Vernick’s Conquer Conference
-Still no, but Megan has spoken extensively on Safety Planning at Peaceworks University with Chris Moles.
-Still no, but resources are available at Called to Peace Conference